Sunday, August 2, 2009

Does Your Inner Beauty Match The Outer???

There has been a thought that I have had often times, and I am now going to pose it. How many times have you seen someone male or female and said to your self, "She's really pretty, but her attitude makes her not so cute..." or "He's ok looking but he has a great personality"? Now generally this type of comment sits with a female being cute, but a nasty attitude can put a dimmer on her beauty. However, I have noticed a woman that may not be over the top beautiful "looks wise" but has an outstanding personality and a great aura about herself outshines plain pretty any day. Does your inner attitude match your outer beauty? There have been many time where I have been nasty acting with an attitude, and noticed it didn't get me anywhere. Of course this is when I was younger, but now that I have grown up, I realize that we must project the energy we want in return. Granted this energy is not 100% fool-proof, because there will be some unwanted attention, or whatnot, but the woman in you will definitely know which battles to let be, and nasty attitude battles are one of them. Allowing yourself to see the sunshine in almost any situation and remaining positive in a bunch of negativity... Show the world your beauty, confidence and talent in a humble manner... That is when true beauty shines. Again I ask, does your inner beauty shine as much as your outer?

Until next time...

3 comments:

CurvyGurl ♥ said...

Great topic. To be honest, I need attitude adjustments here and there. Back in the day I always had an attitude and that stemmed from being teased growing up (and not handling it well) and being mean was my way of keeping people from bothering me. Thank God for change and growth.

Anonymous said...

I need fine tuning myself...on my not so positive days...


msclassy

Ava Dior said...

um, i think my comment didnt post but if it did just ignore this one LOL what i said was that i truly believe my personality is what makes me beautiful. my outer shell is just a plus (because im pretty damn cute) lol